5 Tips for Parents: Student Mental Health Needs
- Jakes Redelinghuys
- 7 hours ago
- 3 min read
The first year of university can be a thrilling – but also terrifying – rollercoaster for new students and their anxious parents. You are worried about safety and academic performance while they are trying to look cool and panicking about making friends.
The transition to higher education can trigger massive psychological stress for many young adults. Addressing the importance of good mental health for students early is important for smoothing their journey through university.
1. The Reality of Mental Health in University Students
It’s tough out there. When your child leaves home and has to handle a heavy academic workload, looking after themselves and navigating a completely unfamiliar social landscape without your daily guidance, anxiety often spikes. Academic achievement is directly tied to a student's psychological well-being. If they are struggling silently, their marks will plummet along with their quality of life.
2. Spotting the Effects
Suffering from poor mental health doesn't always look like staying in bed all day or crying at the drop of a hat. Sometimes, it manifests as a sudden drop in academic performance, starting to isolate or changes in eating habits. Young people face complex challenges today, and the pressure to succeed at university can feel crushing. Watch for subtle shifts in their daily life. Are they calling less often? Do they sound exhausted? Are there obvious changes in their personality or routines? Early detection changes everything. It's important that you have open conversations with your children about the effects of poor mental health.
3. How to Support a Student from Afar
You can’t hover over them from far away back home, but you can build a safety net. Here is how parents can actively support students and promote good mental health without being overbearing:
Normalise the struggle: Talk openly about mental health challenges, such as anxiety and depression, so they aren't ashamed to seek help.
Keep a routine: Set up regular, low-pressure weekly or monthly video calls to catch up.
Share resources: Ensure they know how to access the university's mental health services or South African depression support groups.
Encourage downtime: Remind them that student life needs balance; it can’t be 100% studying.
4. Combating Isolation with a Built-In Support Network
Where your child rests their head matters deeply. Isolation feeds anxiety. Sitting alone in a dark, cold room can encourage depression, whereas a vibrant community promotes feelings of connectedness and well-being. Undergraduate students need safe spaces to decompress, whether that’s a communal Sunday braai or a shared study zone. If they are close to CPUT, UWC or Eduvos, living at Study & Stay makes the daily commute one less thing to worry about. Safe, premium accommodation provides an instant support network. This structural stability is foundational for good mental health.
5. Resources and Apps for Students
Gen Zs live on their phones, so meet them where they are. Encourage them to download mental health apps such as Headspace or make use of local support services such as SADAG. Combining these smart digital tools with real-world access to mental health professionals creates a robust defence against anxiety disorders.
Start with Secure Accommodation
Don’t leave their well-being to chance next year. The 2027 waiting list for Study & Stay (Maree Street and Durban Road) is officially open. Give your child a safe, premium, community-driven space near UWC, CPUT and Eduvos before spots run out.
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